8 Clues to a Conflict Personality

Conflict is an unavoidable fact of life.  From time to time everyone experiences the friction of conflict.  It is natural, normal, and at time necessary.  It can lead to change and improvement.  But some people seem to be constantly caught in a conflict.  Little things, big things, nearly all things lead to a conflict for…

3 Major Communication Mistakes during Conflict

Communication is a critical part of resolving a conflict.  If your goal is a peaceful resolution, and to return to a positive relationship, it is very important you don’t make these three major communication mistakes: Texting  Texting has become one the most common ways that people communication.  It is fast, efficient, and convenient.  It is…

4 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Trying to Resolve a Major Conflict

Conflict is often messy.  When the conflict is prolonged, high stakes, or high emotion resolving conflict can be difficult.  If finding resolution and ending the conflict is important to you, then doing some self-reflection before trying to resolve the conflict can be very helpful.  Ask yourself these four questions, and give yourself time to calming…

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Is Compromise Worth it to Resolve a Conflict? 4 Questions to Ask Yourself

Prolonged conflicts can be time consuming, emotionally draining, distracting and disruptive to productivity and generally unpleasant.  Mediation can be an extremely effective way to end a conflict.  The goal of mediation is to find a resolution that is acceptable to both parties.  Essentially it is to see if there is an agreement that both parties…

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The Art of the Apology: 4 Elements that Make a Difference

A good apology can go a long way towards righting a wrong and mending a relationship.  It can make a big difference.  That said, sometimes apologies are not very effective and rather than helping things improve they can actually make things worse.  Usually that is because the apology is not perceived as being sincere.  The…

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4 Major Benefits of Mediation to Resolve a Conflict

When it comes to resolving a conflict, you have options.  If you are considering filing a lawsuit or going to arbitration, you may want to first consider some specific benefits of mediation. Often arbitration and mediation are lumped together, because people assume that they are essentially the same experience.  In fact, mediation is a unique…